Sexual violence isnt an uncommon experience

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Escrito por Álissom Ribeíro
em 02/07/2025

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Crave Vesper Mini Review: The Discreet Vibrator

According to our panel, Le Wand was “a lot of fun” during partnered play. The versatile toy can be used for sensual massages, foreplay and during sex. Our panellists were blown away by the number of speed settings and distinctive vibration patterns there were to experiment with, allowing them to achieve orgasms that were both fast and intense. While the Deluxe Mini is small, it’s also pretty mighty, Megan Fleming, MD, a psychologist and AASECT-certified sex therapist, tells SELF. Its seven vibration patterns and 10 speed settings provide plenty of variety—FYI, that’s 70 combinations total. Plus, the ultra-flexible neck comes in handy when you’re using it with a partner (or two).

Unlike traditional clitoral vibrators, the Namii works hands-free, plus it’s fully waterproof and whisper quiet, and even has a magnetic charging base that also serves as a mood light – what more could you want. Designed to be worn during sex so both couples can share the vibrations (without hands required), this smooth and ergonomic toy is an excellent vibrator for simultaneous G-spot and clitoral stimulation. It’s also the rare option that’s fully waterproof and can be enjoyed without worry in the bathtub, shower—wherever. Since it’s meant to complement penetrative sex, people who are only interested in solo play might look for another option, as this one is on the pricier side.

“The shape serves as the reminder that some of us need not to take ourselves and our sex lives so seriously.”. The Snail Vibe Curve is shaped like the mega-slow gastropod it’s named after. One end of the nine-inch toy is a shell-like spiral , while the other side has a handle and controls that look a little like a snail head with beady button eyes. “Masturbators are good for people with penises who seek new sexual experiences or to enhance the monotony of manual masturbation, since our hands are only capable of so much,” says Box.

And though it may take some trial and error, it certainly does deliver. From appearance alone, you can tell that the Magic Wand is not the most subtle toy out there, but icons don’t have to be. With vibrations maxing out at 6300 RPM, or 105HZ, it’s definitely on the rumblier end of the spectrum, but make no mistake — this wand makes some noise. The power this wand packs is no joke, and first time users might need some time to work their way up from the first intensity level. The Luna is lighter than other wand vibrators, clocking in at just 4.7 ounces. Combined with its flexible neck and seven inches of length, you get a pretty maneuverable wand.

To this day, I have friends, of all ages and relationship statuses, who can only orgasm when using a Womanizer product, and I’m sure the Enhance will continue that pattern. Sexual violence isn’t an uncommon experience, and even though we’ve made strides in talking about it, we still don’t talk much about its after-effects. After experiencing sexual trauma, many people experience a range of sexual difficulties, including — but certainly not only — sexual avoidance.

Plus viberator, read up on sexpert insight on what makes this genre of vibes so unique and so worthy of your wallet. WhisperBullet, available for $59.99, is a sleek, compact sub-audible bullet vibrator offering five vibration speeds that cater to any mood, from gentle to intense. Powered by Bellesa’s revolutionary WhisperTech™, this product delivers powerful pleasure while remaining undetectable to the human ear.

Waterproof and app-enabled, it offers two motors and two control tracks to control both the clitoral stimulator and G-spot stimulation. And while you might have found your way around your own clitoris (or guided a few partners through the Do’s and Don’ts), it’s totally normal for the clit to take a bit of time to reach full arousal. “Remember that it takes, on average, minutes of stimulation and foreplay before a woman is fully aroused,” Serra says. Vibe uses UltraWave Vibration, which “combines low-frequency, rumbly vibrations with 10 powerful, harmonic resonances,” the brand explains. The stimulation is described as intense but gentle, and the whole experience should be smooth and sexy without ever crossing the line into too much. Vibe also offers three autopilot modes that last for 10 minutes each, letting you take a full journey into pleasure.

We love our fancy, high-tech sex toys, but sometimes — for example, when you’re getting a little frisky in the kitchen — there’s just not enough time to run into your bedroom and unearth your favorite paddle or dildo. This is where grabbing a homemade sex toy like a spatula or cucumber might come in handy. Using a household item for sexy things might feel a bit weird at first, but can also be a fun way to spice things up inside and outside of the bedroom, while also being cost-effective. You can also use them at home to explore new elements of your sexuality. If you like the idea of being submissive in your sex life, then imagining putting a vibrator up against your most sensitive spots and handing the controller to your partner is thrilling. Boasting almost five hours of play per charge, the Lush 3 is perfect for discreet compared to other toys.

In case you didn’t know, Lovehoney has one of the biggest sex toy collections we’ve ever seen. Lovehoney’s main forté is sex toys, but you can also spot its impressive stash of lingerie and accessories like lube and bondage gear. “Easy to use, especially for people who may struggle to hold on to small objects or other sex toys, this vibe slips right over the tip of your finger,” says Balestrieri.

I suggest using your vibrator in conjunction with lube, which will help your toy glide gently across your clitoris instead of tugging at it. If you have a silicone toy, you want to avoid silicone lubes, which can break down your new purchase. It’s a water-based lube (safe for silicone toys!) that has the same wonderful texture as a silicone lube. “When men only use their hands to regularly masturbate, they essentially get used to that one sensation/grip/pressure,” explains Dr. Tara, a sex educator and coach.

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